Real talk about
sex, shame,
and marriage.

Hey, I'm Michelle

You didn't get
bad theology on purpose.

"Most of us were working with incomplete information. We built a theology about our bodies and our desire that made sense given what we were taught. It just wasn't the whole picture."

I'm a Jesus-loving, taco-chasing girl mama who became the "bandaid ripper" — the one who says the hard things out loud because I've learned I'm never the only one walking these roads. I host the Rip It Off Podcast, and I'm here for every woman who followed the rules and still ended up confused in her own marriage bed.